70 "this or that" questions for friends

"This or that" is the fastest way to learn about someone. Each question takes two seconds to answer, but after twenty of them you know a surprising amount about a person. They are also perfect for Instagram story stickers, icebreakers and long car rides.

How to play

Read the two options and answer instantly, without explaining. The rule is speed: no "it depends". After the round, compare answers and see who you match with most. For a twist, try to guess your best friend's answers before they reply.

Food and drink

  1. Tea or coffee?
  2. Pizza or burger?
  3. Sweet or salty?
  4. Biryani or pasta?
  5. Chocolate or vanilla?
  6. Fries or nuggets?
  7. Breakfast or dinner?
  8. Spicy or mild?
  9. Cake or ice cream?
  10. Cooking at home or eating out?
  11. Juice or fizzy drink?
  12. Mango or strawberry?
  13. Street food or fancy restaurant?
  14. Pancakes or paratha?

Lifestyle

  1. Morning or night?
  2. Call or text?
  3. Early or on time?
  4. Messy room or perfectly clean?
  5. Planner or spontaneous?
  6. Stay in or go out?
  7. Sneakers or sandals?
  8. Hoodie or jacket?
  9. Gym or walk?
  10. Save money or spend it?
  11. Phone or laptop?
  12. Android or iPhone?
  13. Dark mode or light mode?
  14. Alarm on first ring or snooze five times?

Entertainment

  1. Books or films?
  2. Comedy or horror?
  3. Series or movies?
  4. Cartoons or anime?
  5. Music or podcasts?
  6. Singing or dancing?
  7. Board games or video games?
  8. Marvel or DC?
  9. Reality shows or documentaries?
  10. Watching sport or playing sport?
  11. Cinema or home with snacks?
  12. Old songs or new songs?
  13. Instagram or TikTok?
  14. Selfies or group photos?

Travel and places

  1. Beach or mountains?
  2. City or village?
  3. Plane or road trip?
  4. Summer or winter?
  5. Rain or sunshine?
  6. Hotel or camping?
  7. Window seat or aisle seat?
  8. Explore alone or with a group?
  9. Sunrise or sunset?
  10. Forest or desert?
  11. Theme park or museum?
  12. Pack light or pack everything?

Silly picks

  1. Cats or dogs?
  2. Dragons or unicorns?
  3. Pirates or ninjas?
  4. Fly or be invisible?
  5. Zombies or aliens?
  6. Talk to animals or speak every language?
  7. Past or future?
  8. Superhero or villain?
  9. Giant duck or a hundred tiny horses?
  10. Socks with sandals or no socks ever?
  11. Robot butler or pet dinosaur?
  12. Live in a castle or a treehouse?
  13. Never be hot again or never be cold again?
  14. Only whisper or only shout?
  15. Free food forever or free travel forever?
  16. Best friend who always replies or best friend who always pays?

Use them in your Instagram stories

Pick five or six favourites, add them as poll stickers, and watch the replies roll in. People love tapping polls, and the results start easy conversations with friends you have not talked to in a while.

Know your friend's answers?

If you can predict your best friend's picks on all 70, you really know them. Want to see if they know you just as well? Make a ten-question quiz and send them the link.

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